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College girl gets instant karma for giving herself to a guy who's in a relationship.

College girl gets instant karma for giving herself to a guy who's in a relationship.

Is flirting cheating when you’re in love with someone? Do you flirt with an attractive friend when your partner isn’t around? Or a better way to put the same question is, do you enjoy having a happy conversation with an attractive friend or coworker? Most people press the panic button when it comes to flirting. And almost always, that’s because they don’t understand what flirting really is all about.

A post went viral on social media of a girl having a conversation with a guy that has a girlfriend. The girl was so into the guy and exchanged conversations and plans on going out. But the girl didn’t know that she was a trap, the guy’s girlfriend was the one replying to her messages. As you can see on the last part of the conversation, it seems like the girl was shocked by the replies of the guy until a photo message was sent and then karma hits her hard. The girlfriend was so furious with her and wanted to do something to her.

What is flirting? Flirting is a simple idea. It’s a conversation where you attract the other person using your charm and your conversational skills. If you attract someone while talking to them, you’re already flirting with them. Of course, sometimes, that could happen unintentionally too.

Why does flirting feel so good? Before we even get to chatting about whether flirting is cheating, let’s get to why flirting feels so good. It helps keep your sexuality alive and makes you feel better about your own attractiveness. You become a better flirt, which makes you a better tease and a better conversationalist. It makes you feel more confident about yourself and your own abilities. It doesn’t leave you frustrated or restricted by your relationship. If you can flirt naturally, it shows that you have all the charming traits in you already, and that makes you a really good catch.

The difference between harmless flirting, touchy flirting and talking dirty. Is flirting cheating? Well, it depends on the kind of flirting you have in mind. There is harmless flirting. This is the kind of flirting where you use your gestures and your voice to have a happy conversation. You tease and you laugh, and you have a great time. This is perfectly acceptable even when you’re in a relationship. If your partner can’t handle it, it only means they’re insecure or feel offended when you give anyone else your attention.

Touchy flirting. In this kind of flirting, you do all of the above and yet, you take it one step further. You exercise your hands and almost all the time, your hand’s resting on some part of your friend’s body. You may place your hand casually, but it could definitely be misinterpreted by everyone around.

When anyone talks about flirting, every prudish mind thinks of this kind. Flirting is casual. Talking dirty definitely isn’t. If you want to do it, compliment the other person romantically or try to get them to sleep with you, then that’s completely unacceptable when you’re already in a relationship. 

So if you do indulge in a bit of flirting with others when your partner isn’t around, restrict it to the harmless kind. It’s safe and fun, and no secure partner takes offense of it. Is flirting when you’re in a relationship really cheating? All of us flirt naturally, whether we realize it or don’t. Many lovers who don’t want their own partners to flirt with anyone else may just be hypocrites. Of course, you may not like the thought very much. But put yourself in your partner’s place. Wouldn’t you enjoy a conversation with an attractive someone other than your own partner?

The more you suppress your flirting side, the more you’d feel like you’ve lost your sexuality. And that would, in turn, affect your confidence in bed. So is flirting cheating when it can make you a better lover? Times when you should avoid flirting. Your partner is insecure or you’re dating someone who’s extremely jealous. (good luck with that relationship!) You’re talking to someone who will misinterpret your conversation or assume that you’ve started falling for them even if you’re only trying to have a fun conversation. Your partner’s friends are around, and they would want nothing better than to exaggerate the situation and spread slutty stories about you (because they’re probably jealous). Your relationship is going through a rough patch and you need to focus on building your relationship instead of sweet talking someone else.

Flirt, but never leave your partner in the dark. Flirting is healthy for a relationship, but both of you should be aware of each other’s abilities to sweet talk someone else. You need to have a great relationship with your partner, and both of you should have a lot of trust and love in the relationship. And let’s face it, you have no choice anyway! All of us flirt or brighten up when we meet someone attractive. Love recklessly and flirt with caution. For the girl better luck next time, go with the guy who will be for you. 

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